Sometimes being nice makes people look at you in a different way. If you just smile at someone it will show that you are really happy and a very nice person. Even if sometimes the person you are being nice to isn't being nice back at least you tried. Just remember that in your world you will always be a very nice person. Like in this blog: Happy Smiles Ripple Like Sunshine.
Too be a nicer person you should just wave at someone-and mean it-not only will they know you mean it but you will get that bubbly feeling inside where you feel,"WOW that was great." And no not like Frosted Flakes. But yes sometimes people may think,"Um why is this stranger waving at me?" And they might even give you a bad finger, but still at least you know that you tried. Also if you are crossing the street and cars are honking, don't yell back. Just keep walking and wave at the cars that didn't honk in regards to saying,"Thank You." If someone is actually nice enough to say something back that doesn't mean you have to have a conversation with a complete stranger, just smile and politely look away. Like if you are stuck i traffic on the freeway and you have to get over into the next lane, if a car lets you over then look back and wave and smile. Something nice to know you actually are saying thank you. I call it "Car language."
I don't agree with that sometimes people will smile at you and not mean it. For example my neighbor across the street is evil but will sometimes smile at us.
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ReplyDeleteI agree with aldert people can somethimes smile and not really mean it. I can tell anyone oh I like your dress but in my mind I can say ewwww that dress is ugly I would never wear it.
ReplyDeleteThat is true Sarai you just want them to think that you are complimenting them when you are not.
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